Friday 26 September 2014

Meeting of September 23


Rotary Meeting of September 23, 2014 - Reported by Tom Croft


Last week of Youth Services Month

The meeting was opened on time by Samantha Lloyd (left) and Julia Philips (right); Samantha provided an interesting opening with welcoming us aboard flight 731 from Prince George to Victoria; she was corrected by Julia who reminded her that she was at the Oak Bay Rotary Club.  The flight was smooth after the correction.

William Shatner led us in the reciting of "Oh Canada" and it was a pleasure to see him on the screen.  Sandy Curry recited Grace and Sam and Julia granted themselves first position in food line-up!

After lunch, Julia informed us that she had been told by Jim that the lunch would be Mexican; Sam assured Julia,” that this is NATCHO your club”.

Visiting Rotarians; Samantha Lloyd and Julia Philips Rotaractors and MC's today; Lisa Collins, President Victoria Harbourside - Law/Wealth Planning; Peter Davey, Past President Glastonbury & Street Club, UK - Marketing

Visitor:  Kathleen Arnason, guest of Jim Force.

Health of the Club Mary Canty: Batya and David ARE still in Israel with their son who is not well; Mary read a letter from them.  David Philips is having some more treatments.

Sabrina and Janna with the banner from the Rotary Club close to Tricia's
Primary School alma mater, Mitchelton, Brisbane, Queensland.
Announcements:  Jim Force exchanged a banner with Peter Davey from England. Peter provided some comment on his club of 25.  Club in a Pub this week; Paul Harris Awards Oct 2; NO MEETING NEXT WEEK - there is still time/room to register for  Thursday's night Paul Harris Award Night.

There is a District proposal to have only an annual motto "Service Above Self" with no Presidents' annual theme.  A discussion of the motion ensued; of the members present, 21 voted in favour of the motion and 4 against.  The results will be sent to the District.

Celebrations Master; Perry Bamji, began by promoting the optional black tie Paul Harris Award Dinner.  People talking during his promotional moment were fined; he fined the Rotaractor for her bad joke. Tom and Jill Croft's 42nd anniversary; Ron Beyer and his wife are celebrating their 30th anniversary.

Happy bucks: Tav immigrated 50 years ago today; Mary had  life cycles pick 160 lbs from her grape arbour; Jim and Lynne regarding the Roosevelt series on PBS and the Polio connection; Jessica - party on Sunday; Jana missing apples - apparently life cycles got them.

Eugen
John Jordan introduced Eugen and his wife Iris.  Eugen is our guest speaker today. He was professor at Ryerson for 30 years, and sometimes found at the pulpit of local churches.  He spoke today on the Classics. Here it is in its entirety.

Cicero Quotes on Aging
Introduction

The reason I am giving this talk today dates back to last January.
Past-President Peter Lawrie introduced Rotary Awareness Month with a pep talk on increasing member participation in club activities.
The Board, he said, had set a goal of 100% engagement from the membership;
and then he floated this slogan adapted from the John Kennedy era:

Don’t forget to ask yourself, what you can do for Rotary.

So I asked myself. What else, besides Roster duties, could I possibly do that would be of interest to club members?
I looked around this room. I noted many of us were seniors.
Why not share with them my excitement about Cicero’s Essay on Aging.
There are many active members who are decades younger, but I had found Cicero’s insights very energizing and gloom-dispelling; maybe the old philosopher has some good tips for the modern day for all of us.

So I let Bob Schelle know, if he ever needs a speaker, I’d be happy to step in.
So here we are today. 
I’ve called my talk, “Quotes from Cicero on Old Age.”

 Some background on Cicero

Marcus Tullius Cicero lived in Rome during the first century, BC, from 106 B.C. to 43 B.C.
He was an highly acclaimed philosopher, politician, lawyer, and orator, who published more than 100 of his writings, speeches, letters and books.

His essay “On Old Age,” was written the year before his death at 63 years of age.

The essay has received universal recognition for its clarity, humaneness, and its vitality for the inevitability of aging.
This positivism led the French philosopher, Montaigne, to quip, “He gives one an appetite for growing old.”

In today’s talk, I will read two-score of my favourite quotes from the essay, in roughly the order they appear in the text.

Cicero needs no commentary; he speaks for himself.

(1)        What I shall try to compose for you--as well as for myself--is a consolation for this prospect of old age.
            I have so greatly enjoyed its composition that the task has rid me of any thought of the irritations which age shall bring, and has even made the condition seem agreeable and attractive.

(2)        I regard nature as the best guide: I follow and obey her as a divine being.
            Now since she has planned all the earlier divisions of our lives excellently, she is not likely to make a bad playwright’s mistake of skimping the last act.

            And a last act was inevitable. There had to be a time of withering, of readiness to fall, like the ripeness which comes to the fruits of the trees and of the earth.

            Life’s course is invariable—nature has one path only, and you cannot travel along it more than once.

            Every age has its own characteristics: boys are feeble, youths in their prime are aggressive, middle-aged men are dignified, old people are mature.

            All things in keeping with nature must be classified as good; and nothing is so completely in keeping with nature than that the old should die.
           
            In the same way as apples, while green, can only be picked by force, but after ripening to maturity fall off by themselves, so death comes to the young with violence but to old people when the time is ripe.

            And the thought of this ripeness so greatly attracts me that as I approach death, I feel like a man nearing harbour after a long voyage: I seem to be catching sight of land.

(3)        But surely there are occupations fitted for old men’s minds and brains even when their bodies are infirm.
            Some people never stop learning, however old they are.
            That is what I have been doing, too!
            In my later years I have learnt to read Greek. I have fastened upon this study with the greed of a man trying to satisfy a long-endured thirst.

            So old age, you see, far from being sluggish and feeble, is really very lively, and perpetually active, and still busy with the pursuits of earlier years.
           
            What nobler employment, or more valuable to the state, than that of a            man who instructs the rising generation.

(4)       We ought to feel very grateful to old age for removing the desire for sensual pleasures.        
            For sensual feelings cloud a man’s judgment, obstruct his reasoning capacity, and blind his intelligence: let sensuality be present, and a good life becomes impossible.

(5)        Now I come to the pleasures of farming. These give me an unbelievable amount of enjoyment.
            Old age does not impede them in the least, and in my view they come closest of all things to a life of true wisdom.


            Cornfields, meadows, vineyards, woods, all give added pleasure to the         cultivator’s life.
            And so do orchards, cattle-pastures, bees in their swarms, and flowers in their infinite variety.
            Planting, too, is a delight, and so is agriculture’s most ingenious operation, grafting.

            Personally I incline to the opinion that no life could be happier than the farmer’s.
            To begin with, the services which he performs by his cultivation of the soil are beneficial to the entire human race.

            If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need.
           
(6)        For our human souls have come into our bodies from heaven: they have been sent down from their lofty abode and plunged, so to speak, into the earth, which is alien to their divine and eternal nature.

            But what nature gives us is a place to dwell in temporarily, not one to make our own.
            When I leave life, therefore, I shall feel as if I am leaving a hostel rather than
            a home.

            What a great day it will be when I set out to join that divine assemblage and concourse of souls, and depart from the confusion and corruption of this world!

            I shall be going to meet not only all those of whom I have spoken, but also my own son. He should have cremated my body; but I had to cremate his.

            There are two alternatives: either death completely destroys human souls, in which case it is negligible; or it removes the soul to some place of eternal life--in which case it is greatly to be desired.

            Even if I am mistaken in my belief that the soul is immortal, I make the             mistake gladly, for the belief makes me happy, and is one which as long as I live I want to retain.


(7)        When life’s last act, old age, has become wearisome,
            when we have had enough, the time has come to go.
            That is what I think about old age.

            Old age: the crown of life, our play’s last act.
             
I conclude with a quote on Old Age from a Guatemalan who had observed one of our members, Mary Canty, (92), climb a mountain in Lake Atitlan, Guatemala.

Mary herself told us the story from this podium last month.

"Mary Canty,” he said to her. “I have watched you. You have changed my life. After meeting you I will never be afraid to grow old."

Bravo, Mary!

Bravo to everyone!

May you live to see the condition!


Eugen was thanked by Don O'Coffey


Additional quotes from Cicero:

The foolishness of old age does not characterize the old, only the foolish.

No one is so old as to think they cannot live another year.

Where there’s life, there is hope.

I have never heard of an old man forgetting where he has buried his money.
Old people remember what interests them.

I am so fond of conversation that I even enjoy afternoon parties.

Brevity is the best recommendation of speech,
whether in a senator or an orator -- or a Rotarian!

Our MC’s closed with a tribute to the Queen by the Kinks, called "Gloria". What a great meeting and Youth Services Month.

Wednesday 17 September 2014

Oak Bay Rotary Club meeting – September 16th, 2014 - Sandy Mayzell - Dancing with the Octopus

Reported by Peter Lawrie

Ruby and Janet
To avoid any pretense of neutrality, this reporter humbly advises that we were entertained, inspired and moved by a stunning meeting this week. In the spirit of Youth Services Month, we had guest MC’s – Janet Welham from Oak Bay Parks and Rec (Sports programming and Youth Liaison) + Ruby Tang (this year’s President of Oak Bay High Interact Club). Both did a great job running the meeting and keeping an unruly, appreciative crowd in check. This was a meeting of many standing ovations! President Jim, Bob Schelle, and the Youth Services team are to be commended for their leadership inventing this meeting!

There was an early buzz in the room when the meeting was called to order with the delightful return of Tom Lidkea playing O Canada to a rousing chorus. A spontaneous standing ovation followed.
Lynne provided grace. A fine feast followed. Ron was doing triple duty – set up/ take down; Greeting/Introducing visitors and Celebrations Master.

Visitors included: Bruce Walkey from Courtenay; Kathleen Arnason (prospective member); Ruby Tang; Janet Welham; Margaret Nots; Sandy Mayzell (speaker) and Anne McIntyre (Disaster Aid Canada and prospective member).
Mary’s report on Health of Club advised that Maria, to be honoured at the upcoming PHF evening gala, is recovering nicely and has returned to work part time. Maria is a dental assistant who volunteers her vacation to help John Snively out in Guatemala each year.

Announcements:
President Jim advised:
1) George Pritchard is preparing the Roster for October, November, and December. If anyone is away for extended periods, and/or has a specific request, please let George know by the end of this week.
2) Peter J requested (and the board approved) a leave of absence. 
3) Ted Chambers has regrettably decided not to renew his membership this year. Janna will step in to co-chair Youth Services with Sabrina until Christmas.
4) There is a Rotary Friendship Exchange planned with New Zealand. The Victoria contingent would be in NZ in early March and the NZ crew would be in Victoria in early June. Jim will post more info. Sounds like an amazing good time!!

Jim, Sabrina, and Janet
President Jim and Sabrina jointly presented a well-earned PHF award to Janet Welham. Janet is such a deserving and inspiring example of leadership. She was a member of Oak Bay Interact when in high school and our club sponsored her to RYLA + the International RYLA convention which, she advised, was the beginning of a life-long passion for the objects of Rotary.

Celebrations' Master Ron proved again while the pen may be mightier than the sword, the pen is no match for the microphone! A brutal separation of cash from this intrepid reporter followed!
There were fines for gnomes, crowd sourcing, grovelling, arriving late, not embracing spectacular weather, and much more, levied in a distressingly joyous manner.

Happy/Sad dollars were contributed in honour of the tentative teacher/government agreement; Pablo’s return from exotic  performance venues in Mexico and South America + next week’s concert here in Oak Bay; there was money flowing for wedding and Rotary anniversaries (apparently Margaret Lidkea was also a part of Tom’s anniversary!); Lynne celebrated a very successful ALS walk function with Corey & Lynne leading the charge on the BBQ, and others pitching in; Joan F was contributing what she thought could be her final happy/sad $’s as she is about to leave with a group to do some Grizzly Bear watching (remember Joan you only have to run faster than the slowest member of the group!); finally, Steve Sharlow advised that his wife is on her final farewell tour in her judgeship and will soon be home to Victoria to contribute her talents to our community.

Joan Peggs introduced Sandy Mayzell, our speaker. Sandy is an Arts and Film activist. She is committed to having women participate fully and equally in the political process.  Her website is “dancing with the Octopus” and “dancing backwards”. She has designed a creative 8-week school curriculum to engage  and creatively educate our young people.

Sandy Mayzell gave a captivating presentation interspersed with videos and live performance.  She forcefully made the point that key women leaders, activists and shapers in our national history are not in the curriculum of our schools. Young women see few role models to demonstrate effective women in our history. This is not because there is a shortage of women role models, but because it is not taught or highlighted. Young men likewise don’t see the power of women making a profound contribution to their lives.

Dancing Backwards is an innovative program in schools targeting elementary grades and teens in their classes. The idea is to learn about some high impact women trailblazers and then campaign & vote for whom they will make a 3-minute story - in any medium. It is an 8-week curriculum with support from Sandy and her team to provide technical and coaching advice. The students come out of the course with a creative, self-expressed story presentation. It can be dance, song, video, drama, digital, stop action Lego, and/or all of the above. We saw a live performance from 3 young girls (above) from Sir George Douglas school both singing and dancing an original song; also, we saw a collage of sample snippets of several of the presentations by a range of age groups. Very creative, very moving, very cool! There were several spontaneous ovations throughout!

People who are interested should look at the websites (links are above). Sandy is looking for any financial, creative and/or technical support individuals and groups might be interested in providing.

Heather graciously thanked our speaker. Sandy actually kissed the coveted Rotary mug!!

To finish the meeting, co-emcee Ruby Tang beautifully played a rich classical piece by Debussy on the David Foster Grand Piano. Again, this was greeted by both tears and a standing ovation!


Wednesday 10 September 2014

Oak Bay Rotary Bulletin for September 9, 2014


Reporter: Eugen Bannerman
Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi
There was an invasion from downunder this week - Tricia and Janette are members,
and Jocelyn and Bruce Johinke were visiting from Sydney (Turramurra) via Bali. 
September is Youth Services month, and today’s meeting was chaired and championed by Janna Malo. “Get in touch with your youthful side. Think: what do youth today think of Canada?” For “O Canada,” Janna played a Facebook video of a Rapper rapping the national anthem: I know where I’m from and I told ya before
North of America, hard to ignore
Every time I go away I tell them for sure
I’m from Canada, oh-oh-oh Canada
(I’m from the east coast of Canada)
O-oh-oh Canada
(I’m from the east, east, east, coast)
Yo-yo, no doubt
Yeah I’m from Canada, so sometimes words come out of my mouth like this
Get used to it!
(O Canada! We stand on guard, for thee!)

The other view - thanks Steve


Followed by spontaneous applause. Followed by Lynn Murray saying Grace. Followed by a Photo Call by Steve Sharlow for all to assemble at the front, raise their left hand in a “Just this close” gesture, and, Voila--6 photos-in-one-second later--we followed guests and visitors to the beautiful buffet of salads, pasta, and meat rolls.





Mary and Judy
We were hardly finished eating when Janette Nation, our newest member and today’s Greeter, introduced our Guests and Visitors:

Visiting Rotarians included: Jarrod Clayton,
Jarrod
of Edmonton Strathcona; Mary Bishop and Judy Sedlack, of Crystal Lake Dawnbreakers (they meet at 6:30 a.m.); Bruce and Jocelyn Johinke, of Rotary Bali Canggu, Indonesia; and David and Liz Murray, of Niagara-on-the-Lake.
Jocelyn and Bruce
Guests included: Kathleen Arnasson, hosted by Jim Force, Katie de Rosa, hosted by Victoria Pitt; and Ryan Gisler, hosted by Janna Gisler, and Jan Randall, of St. Albert, hosted by Neil Madsen.
Bruce Johinke of Bali gave President Jim Force the Bali Rotary Club Banner. Unfortunately, we did not have an Oak Bay Banner in exchange. [Editor's note: One was found, and reciprocity occurred!]

Jim, Janna and Sabrina
Announcements:
President Jim Force urged members to support the Paul Harris Evening Dinner on October 2. “Your presence is important.” Award-winning Janna Malo will be sponsoring another fund-raising event, “Superbowl of Hope,” and Rotarians can help at her “Fired Up” ceramics shop at Fort Street and Richmond Road. Eugen Bannerman announced that Oak Bay Rotary is celebrating its 40th Anniversary this year, with a special Anniversary Luncheon on Tuesday October 21.

Lori, with her regal cap
Celebrations Master for the Month is Lori McLeod. She fined all tables without a guest; then found out all tables had guests, so she fined everyone a toonie for having a guest! (Quick recovery). Tricia was fined for buying a house in Nelson before telling us, so we could talk her out of it, so she won’t leave. 

Happy/Sad Dollars
Lorna Curtis is happy she’s travelling again. Heather Aked’s father passed away, after a long battle with cancer. Tom Lidkea told us he has just learned where the Irish go on their vacations: Another bar.  Mary Canty has plenty of deep purple grapes ready for anyone’s picking.

50/50 Draw, and the black marble, was won by Steve Sharlow.

Sabrina Corraini, Youth Services co-chair, introduced our two speakers from Rotaract: Scott Higbie and Natasha Smith. Scott was member of Interact (the High School Rotary club) at Frances Kelsey Secondary School, and joined Rotaract after moving to UVic to study physics. Natasha also joined Rotaract after going to UVic, and became one of the co-presidents.  “Natasha has had a busy year - she graduated from UVic this past June with a Bachelor’s degree in Education, married this past August, and is due with her first child in October.”
(Editorial Note: There are three levels of Rotary International participation: in high school, you can join Interact clubs; at University you can become involved with Rotaract clubs (for people 18  - 30); and as an adult you can join a Rotary International Club. Oak Bay Rotary Club has been supporting both Interact and Rotaract clubs. Today’s speakers are both from the UVic Rotaract group.)

Janna, Natasha and Scott
Stats from Scott Higbie’s talk: 
Although Rotaract started in America, it has grown to be a world wide part of Rotary International. There are over 9500 clubs with nearly 224,000 members. Which country has the most? India, with 2526 clubs. Our District 5020 has 7 clubs; Canada wide, there are only 88 clubs. The Rotaract Club of Victoria is 40-members strong. We are officially ten years old. Currently, we have six committees including: local projects, international projects, professional development, club services, public relations, and literacy.
Natasha Smith spoke about the Relationships of Rotaract with Rotary. Her comments are worth repeating: 
“When I was in Portugal for the R.I. Convention, I was shocked to hear how terrible the relationship can be between Rotaract and Rotary... I am extremely proud of the current status of our (UVic) club, but not all Rotaractors feel that way... world wide, there is a gap between New Gen, and Rotary. We don’t belong on the club locator, we aren’t old enough for Rotary when our time in Interact or Rotaract is through, and we for sure cannot afford it. ... Ron Burton (RI) nailed it on the head when he said, ‘Too many of us are letting Rotaract end their Rotary Careers and not enough of us are picking them up into Rotary. We are all one family.’ ...We heard about a young club past-president, who was merely 22 years old when she became her club’s president. She was passionate about changing the stats that declare that only 2% of Rotarians are under the age of thirty, and only 16% are women. So she did something about it; she started a Rotary Club for Rotarians in their 20’s... Thankfully, there are many solutions to fix the problems or, many things that Rotary clubs everywhere can do to do their part in closing the gap... 
...I’ve loved every minute of my journey in Rotary. I’d love for all former Interact and Rotaractors to feel the same, and look forward to membership with a Rotary club somewhere in the world... I am more than eager to partner with you personally, as members of Rotary International, so we can close the gap and serve above self not as separate entities, but as the family of Rotary.” (Excerpted from Natasha’s copy of the address.)

President Jim Force concluded the meeting by outlining three reasons for asking different club members to serve as Master of Ceremonies for a month each. 1). It allows Directors to take ownership of their portfolios. (For example, this month’s focus is on Youth Services, so the Youth Services Committee is responsible for organizing the meetings). 2). It’s a very demanding job to be President and MC for all 50 meetings a year. This way, the load is shared and becomes manageable. 3). It allows individual members to build up their leadership capacity. Our club has had 40 Presidents, but none of the MC’s to date, have been presidents of the club. Everyone in the club should have the opportunity to stand up and assume leadership. “It’s good to be a little outside of your comfort range,” President Jim said. “Give me your feedback anytime.”

The meeting finished with a video of the APU Malawi “Girls on the Move” singing their graduation song, “I’ll never be the same again.”  [Editor's note: Some of us danced and sang along! It's extremely catchy; it was written by the 2011 APU Grad class themselves.] 

Wednesday 3 September 2014

Rotary Bulletin September 2, 2014

Reporter:  Neil Rawnsley
David Sills was on hand to welcome members and guests after the Labour Day holiday weekend. Where was his other greeter? It appears that on what was supposed to be the first day of school many of our members were truant as we had a smaller that normal turnout. Cashier Anne Sims and 50/50 volunteer Wolf Schopper capably handled the finances. More on his exploits later.

Anneliese Sanghara with newest club member, Janette Nation
This is Youth Services month so September will feature Committee Chairs Peter Johannknecht and Sabrina Corraini along with Rotaract and Interact members as Masters of Ceremonies. Peter welcomed everyone to the first meeting of September and offered a special welcome to Rotaractor Anneliese Sanghara who was a member of the Interact Club at Oak Bay High and after returning from University in Toronto has joined the Rotaract Club at the University of Victoria. Peter commented on the progression that the commitment to youth can make to Rotary involvement at every level.

Despite technical and pitch difficulties we completed an a cappella version of O Canada. I long for the days of Tom Lidkea on the piano but it appears we have succumbed to change and a digital world. Wynn Taylor, described later by the Celebrations Master as the “man of many tongues” led us in an international grace. Was it German?

Sabrina Corraini called on David Sills to introduce guests of the club: Anneliese Sanghara, guest of Peter Johannknecht; Lesley Ockermueller, guest of Rod Sim; and Nadia Hyde, guest of the club and our guest speaker. We had no visiting Rotarians today.

Mary Canty reported on the health of Maria Consalvo who will be receiving Paul Harris Fellow recognition for her work in Guatemala at the upcoming Paul Harris Dinner. Batya and David Westler remain in Israel with their ailing son and David Philip hopes to me back with us soon. Lynn Murray thanked the club for the card during her recent hospitalization and she is glad to be back.”

Dallas and Joan enjoying lunch
Celebration Master (as a traditionalist I still prefer Sgt. At Arms), Joan Peggs first reported on the 205 flags installed for the holiday and thanked everyone involved. It appears that the flag project will bring close to $7,000 dollars to the club coffers this year. On to many fines: Lynne Murray leaving early; Joan Firkins for lawn bowling successes; arriving home safely from vacations – Wolf, Dallas, Wendy, Tricia; Lorna for flashy shoes; and Janette Nation gave herself a fine for leaving her induction folder at the meeting (appears to be some money lending involved). Happy and Sad dollars included Rod Sim whining that Brenda prefers Brian Lamb’s flag installation techniques over his;  Vicky Pitt admitting to financial gain at the airport parking machines; John Edgell for the David Sills taxi service; Peter Johannknecht for our Rotaract guest; and Jessica Van Der Veen for the flags on Don OCoffey’s street. With a 1 in 3 chance for success, the purveyor of 50/50 tickets, Wolf Schopper won the draw and picked the white marble. Congratulations Wolf.


Our newest member, Janette Nation, introduced our guest speaker Dr. Naida Hyde. Dr Hyde is a Toronto native graduating in Nursing from the University of Toronto in 1964, then obtaining her Master’s degree in Psychiatric Nursing from Boston College, followed by a PH.D in Clinical Psychology from the University of Windsor in 1975. Moving to Vancouver in 1977 she was a Psychologist with the Richmond Health Department and the Vancouver Health Department before going into private practice in Vancouver, working with women sexual abuse survivors. She has taught at the Justice Institute, giving workshops and publishing in her area of expertise. Prior to moving to Nelson in 1992, she was the Director of Counselling Service at Simon Fraser University. In Nelson, where they lived and worked for 15 years, Dr. Hyde and her life partner, Dr. Helga Jacobson, founded the women’s healing center, RavenSpirit.

Her involvement with Lesotho began almost 10 years ago when she heard a Sheila Rogers CBC interview with a person starting work in Lesotho, who was looking for sponsors to send boys and girls to high school in this impoverished African country. Dr. Hyde and her partner Helga startied sponsoring girls each year; this was their birthday present to each other. Being passionate about the necessity for girls and women to become educated, self-sufficient and empowered in their lives they began their involvement with improving the life of girls in Lesotho. In 2007 Dr. Hyde was invited to go to Lesotho as a Gender Equity Specialist with Help Lesotho, a Canadian NGO. Since then she has gone back as a volunteer four times.

Lesotho, formerly a British protectorate, is a high mountain country in Southern Africa. A constitutional monarchy, it has a population of two million of which 40% of the people are deemed ultra poor by UN standards. It has the third highest HIV/AIDS rate in the world and the highest percentage of Aids Orphans in any sub Saharan country. Everywhere there are orphaned children. These desperately hungry children are taken care of by grandmothers who have never had the opportunity of education, who are destitute and work together to take care of the orphans. Gender inequality is pervasive. Women do all the heavy work and they do not complain. Once a month the grandmothers trek incredible distances from the mountains to the lowlands where they meet as part of NGO’s dedicated to the care of the orphans. Bitter cold, bad hips, knees and foot problems do not deter them from attending these meetings.

There is so much grief and as Dr. Hyde said: “Love is in short supply”. Her work often involved just what she found in the moment when working with individual girls and the circumstances surrounding their lives. She spoke of Tholoana, a girl who was a double orphan whose mother had died when she was 13 and she was left to care for two younger brothers. With no money for food or clothing for her brothers, she sought help within the village but she was shut out at every door. The fear of death associated with Aids was a barrier. Dr. Hyde built a relationship with her, gave her books and clothing. The next year she graduated 9th in the country and Dr. Hyde was invited to her graduation as her “mother”. This year Tholoana is graduating in nursing. This was an example of “Building Resilience Through Steadfast Companionship”.

Dr. Hyde finished her talk with a reference to the “Mathabo Academy for Young Learners” which is an accelerated learning pre-school, and the need for funding to make the school sustainable.


Jessica Van Der Veen (above) thanked the speaker, and presented her with an Oak Bay Rotary mug.